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 November Son (2008)
IMDB rating: 3.90
Plot: Two years after OCTOBER MOON (2005) (V), two men enter the lives of the survivors, holding the keys to saving them from their misery…or perhaps creating it. The men have a shared secret about their own pasts which will force the women to confront their own fears and guilt over the events which have already destroyed them. When the truth comes out, the terror once again begins as each of the women and both men are tossed into scenario after scenario of bloodshed, torture and the ultimate hell of death, mutilation and destruction.
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Directors: Collum Jason Paul
Actors: Sacket Sacha,Pedersen Lloyd,Howard Jerod,Anderson Ashley J.,Rhone Walter,Lambrecht Sean Michael,Graham Jeff Dylan,Duffrin Joel,Comedy,Drama,Horror,Mystery,Thriller,
How do I let go, when I don't want to?
I have posted questions on here several times about my husband & everyone just tells me to leave him, which I haven’t because I love him & keep hoping that it will be OK.
Right now my heart is broken,,, I can’t stop crying, it’s nearly half-two in the morning & I’m tired and pregnant.
I was in bed with my husband and we started to get intimate, till he couldn’t carry on, then it was over. I was a little upset that he didn’t want to see me pleased. I fee unattractive due to my changing shape, & am 40 this week… something he makes a big deal of (he’s nearly 39).I accused him of not caring for me (he’s planning on going abroad alone when I’m 7 months pregnant to buy tobacco,; going abroad with friends when the baby is a month old, says his grown son is his only family etc).
He wants me to move back to my old house until the baby is born, then we’d find somewhere else to live (at the moment i live with him & his son in the house he shared with his first wife). I asked him why he hadn’t looked for another property (he was offered a 3bed house 2 weeks ago) he said that he didn’t feel safe looking right now - he wants to see what happens. He also said there was no need to as I have a house, so does he. He said he doesn’t want to move out and lose his son (his son has said that when his dad moves he will move to his mums, as this house is special as his mum and dad were together here). I pointed out that he also has a wife and an unborn child… he just said that he has to put his grown son first… this made me furious. We married in November, i found out I was pregnant two days before - he was overjoyed as he always wanted more with his 1st wife but she didn’t with him. He wouldn’t talk to me anymore as he said his son was in bed, I told him that it was nice he was concerned for his son, but even nicer if he was concerned that I’m downstairs crying and the baby’s health doesn;t matter. He said he didn;t care.
He also said that neither of us could have an affair if we’re separated. When I got upset he called me mad… I don;t know how to get through this… I feel he just wants me to go so he can have other women…
How do I become stronger??
Hi,
What an inconsiderate selfish pig your husband is, I feel he has already rehearsed the separation scenario because he plans for you to separate. Losing sleep and crying won’t change anything, you need to be strong, which will be difficult as you are heavily pregnant. Get all of your crying done today, and tomorrow make your mind up you are going to be strong. Then make plans, leave him as soon as you can, better if you do before you have the baby. Be determined not to go back to him, unless of course you want to. It sounds to me as though he is living in the past and unless you do something to change that, he always will. Don’t threaten him with your plans, just do it, then you will be in a stronger position, and you will call the shots.
Good look, I feel for you.
Martin
| Feb 01, 2010
This is too serious for me to answer. All I would answer is that I am 26, and 40 is an amazing age for a woman. I prefer women bewteen 35-40, and wouldn’t have a problem being 35 and dating a 50 year old.
I can’t help you with the rest, but don’t let him convince you, you are worse off for being 40.
montauk | Feb 01, 2010
Well this is the very first time I;ve ever agreed with another answer so much that I have nothing to add to it. Martin’s right–do what he said!! I know it will be hard, but think of your child–if it’s a girl do you want her to grow up watching her mom in an abusive relationship (emotionally, at least!) & if it’s a boy, the same– either way, you don’t want them growing to adulthood thinking this is the norm for adult relationships, do you?? That could seriously screw up their whole life. You have to think of your child’s future now, more than just your own, & staying with someone who doesn;t even want your child is not an optimal future for him/her, in my opinion.
dsayless | Feb 01, 2010
The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak. You know the answer. You are just looking for an easy way out. You are afraid of the unknown, of taking the first step.
Move back to your home. Get on with the rest of your life. Have him visit you there.
He will eventually leave you, regardless of whether you move or not: "I accused him of not caring for me". The only good solution for you is that he has a change of heart. It is fairly clear that he won’t. That is what you need to accept.
Richie | Feb 01, 2010
He is a total shit, treating you this way. And you are taking this …? Never mind him, what’s wrong with YOU!!!???
Grow a bloody spine already, woman. Decide you’re going to be stronger, get your locks changed and pack his stuff into bin liners and leave them outside for him to collect.
Orla C | Feb 01, 2010
Ok…I am in similar situation but my bub is now one, husband left me after his first birthday…..you don;t have to let go yet, you will in time, its been 2/1/2 months and I am only just startindng to now. Be strong and just focus on the arrival of your baby and if that means selfishly living with him to emotionally get thru this, just do it…it is so important you are strong for when this baby comes so that you can bond and enjoy being a mother, don’t let this jerk ruin that for you!!!! I just don’t know what is wrong with men….. by the way I have been enlightened by realising that the reason why I couldn’t let go is because I am in an addictive love relationship, maybe the same for you, research it… put this in goodgle from UTube: "Love Addiction, Co-dependency, Healing, & the Inner-Child" it really helped me…..and get some counselling, ask for help from friends and family!! good luck xxxxx
On a Journey | Feb 01, 2010
So boring, didn’t you used to constantly post questions about your hubby having an affair. You used to open your questions exactly the same. You are so transparent.
Didn’t you also say you wont be on anymore and that you made up questions on multiple accounts to see what peoples reactions were, SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD.
Get a life.
Oh btw all the nasty things you said about me n hubby…………..so untrue, we now back together and so happy, we often laugh about your comments,
go take your meds sweetie,
ciao xxx
Faye | Feb 01, 2010